Katotohanan

I've been watching Ally McBeal DVDs for a while. And it came to the point, I realize why am I really affected be the series. Better still why I could I easily relate with John and Ally.
Also, while watching an episode, the topic of truth why people leave you out the blue struck me. Well not really out of the blue but I came to realize, there is a reason why she wouldn't talk to me. Am I better of knowing that reason? Should I ask, and tell her that no matter what she thinks that it wont do any good, it will do otherwise? Even if it will hurt the hell out of me.
Well I wish I could really know the reason.